Prison or confining people is one thing from the outside, another from the inside. Although I’ve never been to prison, I used to think I could handle a year behind bars without problems. But after experiencing military service, I realized something different. During service, whenever I wanted (well,... Read All

There’s a line between being humble and giving others permission to tear you down, as thin as a hair. Watch this line carefully, destruction and humiliation are tools used by foolish people to undermine your confidence, make themselves look bigger, or take advantage of you. Be cautious of those w... Read All

It’s been over three months since I finished my military service and made some decisions about the next chapter of my life. One of these decisions was to block any kind of news from entering my mind. That means I decided not to find out what’s happening around me (and even far beyond) through newspa... Read All

Not as a programmer who deals with logic from morning till night (and of course, night till morning), but as someone who, ever since I cleaned up EL from BL, has preferred logic over other perspectives, I’ve encountered several situations that made me realize logic isn’t always the best answer to pr... Read All

It had been about 5 years since I bought it. When my hope for Nokia and Symbian ran out I switched to Android, and after a lot of research I got it: a Sony Xperia SP. It followed me for all these years and became my tool for typing and reading the sweetest words and for capturing the most memorable ... Read All

When we say someone is negative, or has a negative vibe, or gives us negative energy, do we ever stop to consider what that “negative” really means? What’s the standard they’re supposedly falling short of? What’s the measure that makes their stance negative, their words pessimistic, or their presenc... Read All

Short answer: As much as possible, start from the top down. Let me give you an example. If you have a bad job or a low income, even if you work really hard and patiently deal with the problems that come from that low income, or endure them with the patience of Job, cutting your expenses as much a... Read All

social networks A few years ago, I was sitting in a café with Behnam (Twitter) talking about military service. He was sharing his experiences, and I was talking about my worries. One of my concerns was not letting it change me. Behnam said something interesting: “No matter how much you tr... Read All

I have a slow-moving mind. That doesn’t mean I’m slow-witted. It means I can’t immediately think through an issue or event, come up with an instant answer, and turn that answer into action. My mind digests and analyzes things slowly, and it keeps working until it reaches the most certain conclusion.... Read All

Not long ago, I was with one of my friends, and that day I was in such a mood that I kept complaining about certain problems I had faced in the past, things that could have been avoided. My friend gave me an answer that completely crushed me in that moment. He said: there are people in this world wh... Read All

"Finally tell me who you are..." O force that embraces every hesitation with eagerness, And in every moment when something true is being done, You draw me to the window.... Read All

Depression is defined as living in a body that struggles to survive with a mind that’s trying to die. Depression destroys. It breaks you down. It shatters. It drains you of the energy and motivation to do anything. It gets to the point where even opening a window requires half an hour of sitting dow... Read All