Why No One Reads Your Posts

We're all looking for someone to look up to, someone whose perspective, skills, or experience can help us grow. When people sense that kind of value in you, they become genuinely invested in your world. They'll read your casual updates, follow your thoughts, and care about things you'd never expect them to notice.

Think about it: when was the last time you eagerly followed someone's writing and felt they had less to offer than you? It rarely happens. We naturally gravitate toward those we admire.

That's why how you present yourself matters. Your audience came to you for inspiration, insight, or guidance, and that's worth protecting. Sharing vulnerability isn't inherently bad, but there's a difference between being human and making your struggles the centerpiece of your platform. When your content shifts from value-giving to processing personal hardship publicly, people quietly drift away, not out of cruelty, but because the connection they were seeking has changed shape.

Keep the difficult moments close to your chest, or at least frame them in a way that still serves your audience. There's a version of honesty that uplifts; there's another that simply unloads.

Your private life can stay private. It doesn't make you less authentic, it makes you someone worth listening to.